Dear Man: You Say You Want Intimacy.

I wrote this article in the middle of the night, following a difficult coaching session with an older gentleman. He had just lost his third marriage, and when I mentioned intimacy, it was really clear that the concept, as most women (possibly including his ex-wives) mean it, was not something with which he was familiar.

I shared with him what I know about the topic - which, interestingly enough, I have learned from a man - and my client asked me, weeping: "Why are we men not told this stuff? Why do I have to hear this at my age, after having lost three marriages, never really having a clue of what either of my wives meant when they said they wanted more intimacy?

Big thanks to Elephant Journal for having published my words. I hope that they will shed some light and bring some hope.

(please share it with your sons)

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