You Are Going to Piss Somebody Off

You’re going to piss somebody off.

I don’t think there’s a way around it..

You’re going to piss somebody off by changing. By growing. By having boundaries when maybe you didn’t before. By asking for what’s yours. By asking for space. By setting deadlines. By asking for quiet. By asking questions, just asking questions.

You’re going to piss somebody off by being you at a truer level. A new level.

You’re going to piss somebody off by no longer tip toeing around or asking permission. No longer apologizing.

You’re going to piss somebody off by being ok with who you are. Finally.

And it’s not going to feel good. Because no matter what, you still yearn to be liked, to belong.

But somehow, this kind of not feeling good is no longer going to be bad enough to betray yourself again.

Because through the years, through the years and through the days and the nights of trying, you’ve learned that nothing is more soul killing than when you abandon you.

So yes, you’re going to piss somebody off. And you’re going to fall in love with you again.